Online Trauma Therapy for Women in Sandpoint, Coeur d’Alene, and Post Falls

A space for women to let go of people-pleasing and perfectionism to embrace their authentic, messy selves.

Being a woman who carries the weight of everyone’s needs on her shoulders is incredibly challenging.

And so is being a woman who never feels good enough.

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Do you spend hours stressing over your house not being clean, knowing that you won’t be able to relax until everything is exactly how it's supposed to be?

You feel like you live in a constant state of chaos, and no matter how hard you try, the chaos seems to follow you.

Is dinner going to be ready on time?

Do I even know what to make for dinner?

Don’t forget to sign Johnny up for soccer tonight.

Did I send that email before I left work? 

Ugh, I’m so tired. Pizza and a movie it is. You numb out to avoid all the tasks running through your mind.

All you want to do is relax, but even relaxing feels like a chore because your mind is going through all the “shoulds” and “have to’s” of your life. 


I should feed myself and my kids better.

I should limit family screen time.

I have to pick up the kitchen before bed.

I have to get in a few hours of work when the kids go to bed.

I should start exercising.

I should spend more quality time with my family.

I have to help Suzy move this weekend, even though all I want is to stay home.

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To those around you, you seem to have it all together— the picture-perfect life. 

✔️ A great job

✔️ An amazing marriage

✔️ Wonderful and gifted children

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But to you, it all feels like a FACADE: fake, overwhelming, and chaotic. A constant struggle to maintain this picturesque life and a deep desire to feel a sense of balance and calm.

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I see you.

I see your need to make sure everyone in your life is taken care of.

I see you exhausting yourself to make sure your kids have everything you didn’t.

I see you reaching for that glass of wine or your phone to numb this gnawing feeling inside, telling you you're not good enough.

I am sorry you are going through this.

I don’t want this for you.

I want you to have the life you dreamt of as a little girl—the one where you felt truly happy and connected to those around you, the life where you were free to be YOU and not shackled to pleasing and perfectionism. 

Healing is possible, and Trauma Therapy can help!

Jarae Swanstrom, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Idaho. Jrae helps women heal from trauma using EMDR therapy and Brainspotting therapy in Sandpoint, Coeur d'Alene, and Post Falls Idaho.

I help women celebrate their imperfections, embrace their true desires, and find their voice.

I am a compassionate, somatic-based therapist trained in EMDR therapy, Brainspotting therapy, and the Trauma-Conscious Yoga Method.

My therapeutic approach aims to help you heal from past trauma and rediscover the amazing woman you were placed on this earth to be! 

Hi, I’m Jarae.

I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and trauma therapist.

I specialize in working with women who are done putting themselves last and ready to take back their control.

They want a voice.

They want the freedom to do less-than-perfect work and still feel good about themselves.

They want to break free from the expectations placed on women today to embrace their free spirit within.

They want to heal from the impact of trauma so they can feel confident in their own bodies.

They are ready to let go of the chaos and start living for themselves.

I help Women heal their trauma so they can:

  • Start putting themselves first and prioritizing their own needs

  • Embrace their imperfections and love their body

  • Speak their truth and not feel guilty

  • Trust themselves and their decisions

  • Say “no” when they mean “no” and “yes” when they mean “yes.”

  • Let go of perfectionism so they can start enjoying themselves

  • Master the art of self-compassion

  • Set boundaries in relationships with ease

  • Feel more connected and fulfilled in their relationships

  • Feel confident in who they are as a woman

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Woman who have worked with me have said things like:

  • "Jarae understands me and my struggles. She has made it easy for me to feel comfortable enough to work through my trauma. "

  • "I have learned so much about myself and how my trauma has affected me today. I’m so much more aware of my body and its triggers."

  • "After doing brainspotting with Jarae, I now feel more in control of my emotions, and I don’t get activated by things like I used to."

  • "I just love coming to talk to Jarae. She challenges me but in a good way. I never feel judged by her."

  • "Before coming to see Jarae, I felt disconnected from myself. She taught me about the nervous system and how to work through and sit with difficult emotions."

Healing Is Possible

It’s easy to think that the struggles you are experiencing right now will last forever. You might have tried multiple different approaches in the past with no success. You WANT to feel whole again and can’t figure out why you break all the promises you set for yourself. You WANT to start each day feeling open, curious, and connected. You WANT to look at life and see the bright and vibrant colors of happiness.

I want this for you, too.

Trauma therapy can give you the sense of peace you are looking for. You will learn about yourself, love yourself, and, most importantly, heal from those childhood wounds that have influenced your ability to accept who you are and feel deep, meaningful connections.

Please contact me to schedule a free 15-minute consultation and learn more about how I can help you become the best version of yourself.


A woman practicing yoga or stretching on a mat in a bright room with a pug lying beside her. Mountain River Therapy offers Brainpotting and EMDR therapy in Sandpoint and Coeur d'Alene, Idaho.

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If you are ready, please reach out to start trauma therapy today.

You don’t have to live with the constant need to get everything perfect, the deep desire to please everyone but yourself, and living in a constant state of overanalyzing everything you do. My online therapy practice in Idaho can help you heal from the trauma binding you to unhelpful behaviors and help you embrace imperfection and authenticity. Mountain River Therapy in Sandpoint, serving Coeur d’Alene, Post Falls, and throughout Idaho, specializes in helping women who are tired of living life for others and are ready to feel calm, confident, and healed. To start your counseling journey, follow these simple steps:

Step 1

Contact Mountain River Therapy

Step 2

Meet with Jarae, a trauma therapist, for an intake session.

Step 3

Rediscover the joy of feeling fully connected to yourself, your body, and those you love!